In the controversy surrounding the British Government’s initiative to redefine marriage, there has been surprisingly little mention of what God has said about it. This is surprising because a number of senior figures from the main churches have already taken part in the debate [1, 2 & 3]. Indeed, this becomes all the more surprising when it is realised that marriage features prominently in the Bible.
The First Marriage
The first reference to marriage appears as early as the second chapter of the first book in the Bible – the Book of Genesis. Whilst the word ‘marriage’ does not appear itself, verse 24 is well known amongst churchgoers: ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh’ (ESV [4]). This is one of the verses of Scripture that brings Christians into dispute with Evolutionists – the reason referred to by the word ‘therefore’ being that woman was taken out of man so as to provide a helper suitable for him (verses 20 to 23).
A Surprising Marriage
Not so readily recognised as relevant is another important event in the Bible – the time when God appeared before the Israelites at Mount Sinai and thundered out the Ten Commandments to all of them.
When Moses later told the people all God’s words and laws, the people responded with one voice: “All the words that the Lord has spoken we will do” (Exodus 24:3, ESV). Observant readers will notice two key words in that reply ‘we will’.
The Israelites were entering into a binding covenant with God. Those two words may remind you of the promise made in a marriage ceremony, and you would be right!
An Almighty Husband
When God later spoke to the nation through the prophet Jeremiah, he spoke of renewing the covenant that he had made with their forefathers: “… my covenant that they broke, though I was their husband …” (Jeremiah 31:32, ESV). God thus confirmedthat, in his own view, he had married the nation of Israel at Mount Sinai. He also spoke to them in similar terms through the prophet Isaiah when he said: “For your Maker is your husband, the Lord of hosts is his name …” (Isaiah 54:5, ESV). So not only did God initiate marriage between man and woman, he also married the nation of Israel, placing himself in the role of husband.
A Divine Joiner
As one continues to explore the concept of marriage in the Bible, the surprises keep coming. For example, when some Pharisees came to test Jesus on the subject of divorce, not only did he refer back to the passage in the Book of Genesis about the two becoming one flesh, but he went on to say: “So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate” (Matthew19:6, ESV). Thus Christ made it very clear who it is that does the joining of a man and a woman in marriage; and that this joining is so important that it should not be undone.
An Unlikely Bride
Later still the Apostle Paul unleashed another surprise in his letter to the Ephesians. When he came to the subject of marriage, he quoted that same passage from Genesis and then wrote: ‘This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church’ (Ephesians 5:32, ESV). Paul’s use of the word ‘mystery’ here is his way of referring to something that was previously hidden, but that had now been revealed. What had been revealed? That Christ is entering into a marriage relationship with the church; he the bridegroom, she the bride. Paul states that this is a profound matter. It is of great importance and not to be taken lightly.
A Ready Bride
Then in the last book of the Bible comes mention of a very special wedding when a great multitude shouts: “Hallelujah! For the Lord our God the Almighty reigns. Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready; it was granted her to clothe herself with fine linen, bright and pure” (Revelation 19:6-8, ESV).
This describes the wedding of Jesus Christ, the Lamb of God; and his bride has made herself ready, being dressed in fine linen, which is then described as being the righteous acts of the saints.
A Godly Relationship
Even from these few quotes, marriage can be seen to appear throughout the Bible, and to play a very important role. It appears both as marriage between a man and a woman, and marriage between God and his people. Thus it becomes clear that God has defined marriage. Therefore, it is not for men and women to redefine it. Redefining marriage in the way the British Government intends will lead to a slow change in attitudes as each generation succeeds their parents. Thus people will drift further away from a godly attitude towards marriage, and this will bring more of God’s wrath upon the people of Britain (Romans 1:18, ESV). Consequently, Christians in Britain have good reasons to enter into discussion with the Government and seek to dissuade it from proceeding with its plan – for the sake of everyone who lives in this country!
References
[1] Archbishop attacks Cameron’s ‘gay marriage’ plan
The Telegraph Online, 05 Oct 2011
[2] Speech: Leadership for a better Britain
Rt Hon David Cameron, Wednesday, October 5 2011
[3] Archbishop’s Interview with the Daily Telegraph
Tuesday 31st January 2012
[4] The Holy Bible, English Standard Version® (ESV®), 2001, Crossway.
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